So here I am again to finish what I started
on ‘Why do married men cheat?’. There are lots of reasons why married men cheat
and if I were to delve into every one of them I am sure I would write up to
Part 20 and still not be done.
This will be my final part so feel free to add
what you believe are the reasons pertaining to this topic.
It is common to hear most men complain about
how women nag about every little issue. Lets start with the definition for nagging.
verb. to annoy by persistent faultfinding, complaints, or demands.
fair share of it my life and I would often wonder whether to comment on an
issue or not for fear of being accused of nagging. I kept quiet most of the
time. I believe a fair share of married men have been driven away from their marital
homes due to consistent nagging from their wives. The Bible even states in Proverbs 21:19 It is better to live in a desert land than with a quarrelsome and
fretful woman. This means that even our Creator
knows how nagging can drive a man nuts and make him look for solace elsewhere.
You see, I believe us women like to ask
things of our men which when not met within our timeframe often brings
down a barrage of questions and so forth which translates into nagging. The
thing about men is although they act like they haven’t heard what a woman says
or asks, its actually been stored in their brains. Its just that we don’t get
the response as quick as we would like to.
Some women are known to nag about
the way their husbands dress, their style of eating, the car they drive, their
work, etc. All because they want a classier, richer, stylish husband just like
their friends’. The wives always find faults with their husbands and criticize
his every decision in the home. As a wife if you compare your husband with your
friends’ you will are in danger of losing him!
The danger in nagging is that it crosses the
line between complaining to disrespectfulness. A man would interpret your
constant nagging as a disrespectful tone. Beware of the tone in your voice when
you have something to say to your man.
Nagging is irritating to any man, he would rather go hide somewhere with
some other woman who gives him peace than to sit in the war zone with you.
Be gracious in your speech as a wife, this
means recognizing your husband as the head and giving him the respect which God
commands you as a wife to give. When you aren’t getting the response you are
looking for, be patient. Men aren’t like women. They process a lot of
information one at a time and take time to analyze them before responding
unlike we women who tend to speak immediately when spoken to. You want to keep
your man at home? Stop nagging and trying to change him.
5 signs you are a nag;
4. You send 5 texts during the work day to remind him about
your anniversary dinner or the visit to your parents house.
than you do making love.
Enjoy this joke about a nagging wife:
NAGGING WIFE JOKE
Farmer Jake had a nagging wife who made his life
miserable. The only real peace that he got was when he
was out in the field plowing.
One day when he was out in the field, Jake’s wife
brought his lunch to him. Then she stayed while he
quietly ate and berated him with a constant stream of
nagging and complaining. Suddenly, Jake’s old mule
kicked up his back legs, striking the wife in the head,
and killing her instantly.
At the wake, Jake’s minister noticed that when the
women offered their sympathy to Jake he would nod his
head up and down. But when the men came up and spoke
quietly to him, he would shake his head from side to
When the wake was over and all the mourners had left,
the minister approached Jake and asked, “Why was it
that you nodded your head up and down to all the women
and shook your head from side to side to all the men?”
Well, Jake replied, “The women all said how nice she
looked, and her dress was so pretty,” so I agreed by
nodding my head up and down. The men all asked, “Is
that mule for sale!?”